Priorities – If You Want to You Can

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Last week we talked about priorities from the point of view of a business owner in, “I’m Too Busy” – The Biggest Obstacle to Success. This week we’ll take a different view on priorities.

This version is often expressed in terms of “I don’t have time….” or “I wish I could…”

  • I don’t have time to go to the gym.
  • I wish I could spend more time with my kids.
  • I don’t have time to make a healthy meal.
  • I wish I had time to learn to play an instrument.
  • I wish I could stick to a healthier eating plan.

When it comes down to it, it’s all about priorities and determination. When you truly want to do something it will move up your priority list all on it’s own and you’ll find a way to do it. The key word is “Truly”.

Dieters and smokers are two great examples: they frequently say they want to lose weight or want to quit smoking but they don’t actually do it. Don’t get me wrong, they frequently try but they often don’t have the resolve – they don’t want it bad enough. They want to lose weight but they want to eat out with their friends more. They want to quit smoking but they need to placate their addiction more. On a positive note, it’s the act of failing multiple times that helps build the resolve to actually get it done. This is often why people have to try multiple times in order to be successful.
Resolve and determination also comes into play with people who want to get in shape, learn to play an instrument, or run a marathon. Most people who want to do any of these can – if they are willing to put in the time and effort and make it a priority.

Do you realize that one hour equals just 4% of a day?

It brings to mind one of my favourite quotes by Confucius – “One who wants to do something will find a way. One who doesn’t will find an excuse.”

One more thing to consider – do you realize that the most successful person you know gets the same number of hours each day as you? We all get 24 hours. It’s how you allocate your time and choose your priorities that makes all the difference.

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“I’m too busy!!” – The Biggest Obstacle to Success

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I’m so busy.”  I hear this all the time.  Another version is, ‘I’m too busy“. Both versions are frequently expressed as an excuse for not achieving a desired goal or for not dealing with an issue that requires attention.  As a business coach, I have two different thought processes around this. This week’s article will examine the first one; as it applies to a business owner.

In business, you are not paid to be busy. You are paid for results. It doesn’t matter whether you’re the owner, an executive, a manager, or a front-line employee. Your overall success depends on results.

Being, “Too busy” is often reflective of poor planning or failure to delegate. I meet many busy business owners who feel they need to do everything themselves. The reality is that when a business is small, an owner is often the go-to person for everything. That said, as your business matures and continues to grow, an owner can’t be involved in everything to the same level of detail. You have to lead and manage at a higher level. If you don’t, you will become the bottleneck to progress and continued success. Ironically, these owners/managers often have employees who are looking for something to do.  Use your team.

Being too busy” is also is often a sign of avoidance – putting off a necessary but perhaps undesirable action. The thing is, whatever you are trying to avoid isn’t going to go away or get any better in time.  In fact, it will usually get worse and it will consume mental energy. All this to say, if something important needs be done it’s essential that you take action. It’s your job. Either deal with it right away or schedule a time when you will do it.

If you’re, ‘Too busy” then you probably haven’t taken the time to determine what your key goals really are and how you’re going to achieve them. “Success” means different things to different people but if you want to be successful on any level then it’s essential that you take the time to establish your goals and priorities.

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Gratitude – Go Ahead, Make Their Day

Many people are so busy every day that they end up overlooking two key aspects of continued success:

  • They work too much IN their business and don’t spend enough time working ON their business.
  • They don’t take the time to show enough gratitude.

Today we will focus on the latter.

When the topic comes up in conversation, many people I talk to tell me they don’t show enough gratitude. They frequently say, “I really should thank people more often.” I always agree.

No one has achieved any level of success without the help and support of others. Everyone owes thanks to someone. Maybe it’s one of your key supporting employees – someone who’s not normally in the spotlight but is loyal, dedicated, and does a great job. Maybe it’s your spouse or significant other. Perhaps it’s the person who serves you a coffee each day and always seems to be happy and helpful. It could be a former teacher who inspired you or someone who helped you when you were down.

Every Friday for the past two years I’ve had a recurring entry in my calendar labelled, “Gratitude”. The entry is to remind me to send someone a note to thank them for something they’ve done. The recurring calendar entry helps me keep “Expressing gratitude” top of mind so that I don’t forget when life gets busy.

It’s important that we take the time to thank those who have helped us or who demonstrate a great attitude. There are so many unsung heroes out there. I encourage you to make it a regular habit. Leave yourself a reminder if need be. I guarantee you will make their day.

 

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